You Might Have a Workplace Bullying Problem If...
- Ronda L. Harris

- May 22
- 3 min read

You know that saying, "๐๐ฆ๐ฐ๐ฑ๐ญ๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ข๐ท๐ฆ ๐ฎ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด, ๐ฏ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ฆ๐ด?"
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Marcus Buckingham and Curt Coffman were really onto something when they wrote about this in their landmark book, "๐๐ช๐ณ๐ด๐ต, ๐๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐ญ๐ญ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐๐ถ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด: ๐๐ฉ๐ข๐ต ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐๐ฐ๐ณ๐ญ๐ฅ'๐ด ๐๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ต๐ฆ๐ด๐ต ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด ๐๐ฐ ๐๐ช๐ง๐ง๐ฆ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ฏ๐ต๐ญ๐บ."ย
๐๐๐ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒโ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ (and frankly I'm fed up to my eyeglasses with this nonsense)!ย
People also leave ๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐๐ถ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ where ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐๐น๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐โnot the managersโare allowed to show their arses every damn day of the week with ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ข ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐พ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐! It's not always an employee's direct supervisor who's the most critical factor in workplace engagement and retention.ย
Terrible colleaguesโthe workplace gossips, the saboteurs who revel in subterfuge and drama, the liars, the backstabbing opportunists, the slackersโand the leaders who embolden them whilst ignoring the problem (despite being fully aware of it) are just as taxing, toxic, stressful, and downright ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ to the wellbeing of employees ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฎ ๐๐ต๐ผ๐น๐ฒ.ย
Before you spend even an iota of energy or a dime on resources to develop training, create elaborate culture campaigns, or invest in personal development...๐๐๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ฆ, ๐'๐ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ง๐ข ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ... you gotta ask yourself, "๐ข๐ฎ ๐ ๐ณ๐ฆ๐ข๐ญ๐ญ๐บ ๐จ๐ฐ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ต๐ฐ ๐๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐บ๐ต๐ฉ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ข๐ฃ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ธ๐ฉ๐ข๐ต'๐ด ๐ง๐ฆ๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ต๐ฉ๐ฆ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ณ๐ฌ๐ฏ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด ๐ช๐ฏ ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ณ๐จ๐ข๐ฏ๐ช๐ป๐ข๐ต๐ช๐ฐ๐ฏ?"ย
Here are the STATS:
Workplace bullying has been linked to a ๐ญ๐ฏ.๐ต%โ๐ญ๐ณ.๐ฐ% ๐น๐ผ๐๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐ per affected employee, equating to ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ $๐ฐ,๐ญ๐ด๐ฎโ$๐ฑ,๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ถ๐ป ๐น๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐๐.
A major UK analysis estimated that workplace bullying cost organizations approximately ยฃ๐ญ๐ฏ.๐ณ๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ through a) Absenteeism:ย ยฃ๐ฏ.๐ฌ๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, b) Turnover:ย ยฃ๐ญ.๐ฑ๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ผ๐ป, and c) Lost productivity:ย ยฃ๐ต.๐ญ๐ฐ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ผ๐ป. The same UK report estimated bullying-related productivity losses at the equivalent of ๐ญ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐บ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐น๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐.
Research cited by the National Workplace Bullying Coalition found that targets of workplace bullying take an average of seven additional sick days per year, ๐ฎ๐ฌ%ย ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐๐ถ๐ฐ๐ธ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐๐น๐น๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐ฒ๐ฌ%ย ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐น๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ถ๐ฟ ๐ท๐ผ๐ฏ๐, and ๐ญ๐ฑ%ย ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐๐๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐น๐ฒ๐ณ๐ their positions because of it.
Workers exposed to workplace bullying incur nearly ๐ฑ๐ผ๐๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฎ๐น ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ต ๐ฐ๐น๐ฎ๐ถ๐บ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐๐, ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ด๐ถ๐ป๐ด $๐ญ,๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ณ in mental health expenditures compared to $792 for those unaffected by bullying.ย
According to the Workplace Bullying Institute, organizations frequently lose high-performing employees, clients, and institutional knowledge due to bullying-related turnover, creating ๐๐ถ๐ด๐ป๐ถ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ต๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฒ๐ป๐ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐๐.
A New Zealand economic analysis estimated workplace bullying, harassment, and related toxic workplace behaviors create ๐๐๐ฏ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฎ๐น ๐ป๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐๐๐ through turnover, absenteeism, investigations, lost productivity, and psychological injury claims.
A 2021 study reported that workplace misconduct and toxic behaviors cost U.S. businesses ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ $๐ฎ๐ฌ.๐ฎ ๐ฏ๐ถ๐น๐น๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ถ๐ป ๐ฎ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ through productivity loss, turnover, and organizational disruption.
Reuters reporting on bullying in the legal profession found that ๐ฏ๐ต% ๐ผ๐ณ ๐ฏ๐๐น๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ฝ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐น๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐, ๐ฑ๐ฐ% ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฒ๐บ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ฎ๐น ๐๐ฒ๐น๐น-๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ด๐ฎ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐ฒ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐๐ฐ๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐, ๐ถ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐๐ฟ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ฒ๐๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป-๐ฝ๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ฒ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐.
Considering these staggering statistics, and the reality they represent, dysfunctional companies have no right to demand loyalty and adherence to pep rally antics (merely paying lip service to culture) as they simultaneously allow people to suffer in silence, fearful of their future with their livelihoods in jeopardy because some office bully is making their work lives a living hell.
Bullying didn't get left behind on a schoolyard in middle school. Sadly, it's alive and well at a company near you and it's silently eroding culture, dampening people's spirits, and costing organizations dearly in ways of which they may not be aware.
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